A. Tells It
If you substitute "men" for "women" in this sentence, you get where I've been at for the past few months. Thanks to A. for putting it so well (and reminding me why I'm taking time off).
I always thought it would be nice to have a variety of women to pursue, but being in such a situation I've realized that the only way that situation crops up is when none of the women you know are really what you need.